Congratulations! Wish I could say I have an answer for always staying positive but I don't. I am only just over 4 weeks so obviously still very early for me but absolutely petrified already!! Although, I do like reading success stories on here and on another preeclampsia site, they make me feel very happy and give me hope!! That's my advice, it happens for other people so why not us! My consultant was honest with me but also put me at ease a little, not negative at all. All the scans etc will hopefully put your mind at rest and make you feel positive rather than over medicalising (not sure if thats a word!). How early did you have it last time?