Welcome to the site and congratulations on the safe arrival of your daughter.
Im glad you found us and I hope you will find all the support you need here.
I have just PMd you, but I wanted to say, much of what you describe is familiar to many people on this site, myself included. The physical scars will take a while to heal but the emotional ones can take a lot longer.
I look forward to talking to you.
Every Woman is entitled to understand what happened in her pregnancy when pre eclampsia strikes. I hope to be able to support that process.